Entry: choosing wisely Wednesday, July 25, 2007



I'm a fairly easy going person. I said fairly. I try not to get upset over the small things, but like any human being, I get upset over the small things, too.

There are a few things that I wish people would not say to me.

  1. "You look great for having three kids."
  2. "Three girls, you must be busy, huh?"
  3. "Asperger's, oh well, that's not real Autism."
  4. "She'll grow out if it, right?" (in refrence to Asperger's)
  5. "It could be worse." (In refrence to Asperger's)
  6. "It get's easier." (in refrence to having 3 kids.")
  7. "I hate dogs." (or cats, or animals in general)

And what I'd like to say in response:

  • Shut up.
  • Shut up.
  • Shut up.
  • Yes, much like a hair cut, oh and shutup.
  • Shut up.
  • I hate you. Shut up.

   10 comments

J f Z
July 31, 2007   03:06 AM PDT
 
Fortunately, everyone dies eventually.
Joe the Troll
July 27, 2007   05:20 AM PDT
 
Some people just don't get that when you don't know what to say, it's okay to just say nothing. And I'll never understand people that have to pick a type of animal to hate.
jude
July 25, 2007   04:23 PM PDT
 
i'll send you a box of garbage bags, RJ...when they begin, you calmly remove one from the box and place it gently, but firmly, over their head.

rolls of twine included in shipping.
AbbyNormal
July 25, 2007   12:39 PM PDT
 
1. Been there, heard that.
2. (substitute "boys" for girls), been there heard that.
2.5 "Doncha wish you had a girl?" (shut up)
3. Yes, I've heard that one too.
4. That's a new one.
5. Said that one myself, to myself.
6. It does?
7. I don't get those people.

Miz UV
July 25, 2007   12:08 PM PDT
 
Pisses me off when someone attributes the fact that I have good kids to "luck." Yeah, our parenting had nothing to do with it.

Another good one is "you're slim so you don't need to worry about calories." Um, hello, how do you think . . . ah, nevermind!!
raejane
July 25, 2007   11:32 AM PDT
 
I think someone needs a poke in the eye.
Adam
July 25, 2007   11:15 AM PDT
 
Hey raejane!!!!!

You look great for having three kids!!!!


/runs away
beej
July 25, 2007   06:53 AM PDT
 
What about when people say..hey she's pretty tough for a skinny white girl. Is that bad? Cause I said that.
Deirdre
July 25, 2007   06:43 AM PDT
 
Okay, that comment just took care of one of the comments made to you.

The others are just idiotic. What's wrong with people???

Slap them. Slap slap slap!
Deirdre
July 25, 2007   06:42 AM PDT
 
I guess sometimes people don't realize that their "compliments" are often offensive.

*hugs*

I will make a note to try to never say anything of the sort to you!

:D

But if I do, feel free to spit at me a shuddup!

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